The Handmaid’s Tale: Review

This story makes me think that as absurd as some of the things in this book sound, it is the little steps that get us there. Punishing children for things they do at home and spying on them using computers issued to them without telling them or their parents about it…yikes. Read the article. It’s interesting and disturbing.

So, the premise: at some point in the future, a group takes over the US government, and removes all property rights from women (can’t have their own money or jobs). Women are then divided up into new “jobs” of sorts: Wives (actual wives of the Commanders (aka “higher-ups”) in the new regime); Martha’s (older women who do housework in the households of the commanders); Handmaids (women who are expected to bear children for whatever household they are assigned); Aunts (teachers of the Handmaids); Econowives (women who are poor and do the job of Wife/Martha/Handmaid in their household). The handmaids lose their real names and are known by the name of their commander. The main character, for instance is “Offred” (Of Fred). It is the story of her experience as a handmaid, but as one who remembers what it was like before all of this.

I really like this book. I like anything in the post-apocalyptic genre, and while this isn’t typical of that it fits in quite well, I think. Wikipedia has a better, more in depth description. There were some things I didn’t quite understand, so I would probably read it again to see if I figured them out. But in general I thought it was a good read. Very disturbing, and made me a little angry toward patriarchy in general, but I think that’s the point.

Writing Daily

I have noticed that this whole 30 days meme has been beneficial for me. Once I got going, it was fairly easy to keep up the writing daily, and there have been times that I post more than one entry per day, or when I think about new things to write about, even though I have posts scheduled a couple days out. For instance, I am writing this on the 20th, but I have posts scheduled for the 21st and 22nd already, so it might not get posted until the 23rd.

I’ve never been very good at writing consistently. When I was younger and kept written journals I would go in spurts. Usually the spurts coincided with whenever I found a new crush or had a new energy for an existing one (quite often). But it would quickly die out when my life (and hormones) slowed down a little. I still write that way, although I don’t get crushes on boys anymore (other than Ryan. awww….*puke*). I get very energized about politics for a while, and then I get sick of it all or I can’t think of anything else to write that hasn’t already been said (better) by someone else. I want to talk about cooking, but I’m not a great cook, I don’t cook often, and I never remember to take pictures while I’m doing it. I read a ton of blogs, and there’s almost always something interesting that I read and tell Ryan about, but I don’t want to spend every entry rehashing things that people have probably read somewhere else. I want to develop my own original content, but I feel like my life is pretty boring. Even writing about James I worry that I’m writing too much about a baby who doesn’t do that much that is of interest to anyone but his dad and I. Our life is pretty mundane…laundry, dishes, Target runs, TV.

Hopefully I can keep up the mostly constant writing once this meme is over. And hopefully the content will be at least mildly entertaining. ;-)

Next thing you know I’ll be yelling about the government takeovers!

I just got done reading this article from the Huffington Post, and I have come to a realization that is kind of hard for me to admit. I….I kind of like *whispers*Meghan McCain. I don’t agree with her on policies; she IS still a Republican. But I respect that she is willing to say things that she believes, even if her party doesn’t agree with her about it (and in fact attacks her for saying it). And in this case, I think she’s right. I saw her on the news a couple months ago, and I was impressed then too. And on an evening talk show…impressed again. This was just the tipping point when I had to actually admit to myself that there is someone who right at this moment is an active Republican that I really like. Of course, along with realizing that I like her, I’ve also reconfirmed my active dislike for most of the Republican party. Attacking someone by insulting their body, or instead of actually defending your position with facts? Way to be mature, assholes.

Whew. It was good to get that off my chest (no pun intended). What things do you want to confess to?

Day 20- Someone you see yourself marrying/being with in the future

Um…I’m pretty sure I’m already married (unless I dreamt the whole thing!), so probably I won’t be marrying anyone else. Unless it is our friend Nic, who brought us the most delicious chocolate/caramel brownies the other day. I warned Ryan about it, so it’s ok, right? They were REALLY delicious brownies. Oh, and there’s my TV boyfriend. I decided after sitting for a full minute trying to decide who, of the many men I like to watch on TV, is my TV boyfriend that I must not have one. Too bad.

This question makes me feel kind of silly for doing this whole meme, because it’s obviously directed at teenyboppers. And in case you missed it, my teenybopper years are long gone. Oh well. I’m still the youngest person at my office, and it seems that I probably will ALWAYS be the youngest person at my office. So there’s that. ;-) At least I’m not the youngest by 15 years anymore.

In unrelated but exciting to me news, we rearranged our living room last night. We pulled the couch and chair closer to the TV, creating an area behind the couch where we put our kitchen table (we have a chest freezer in the kitchen at the moment, and no room for that AND a table in there). I put my sewing machine on the table in the living room, and voilá; a sewing area! Now I just need to put it to good use and get sewing!

PS. I just Googled and taught myself how to get the accent to show over the “a” in voilá. Because I’m awesome.

Day 19- Nicknames you have; why do you have them

I don’t have a lot of nicknames that are used constantly. The main one is Becky (short for Rebecca), and that obviously gets the most use. There are about 3 people who consistently call me Rebecca. Almost everyone calls me Becky. I like either, but I FEEL more like a Becky. I think the why I have this one is pretty self explanatory.

In high school, I once told a couple of friends that my dad had wanted to name me Pamela when I was born. My mom didn’t like that name, and wouldn’t let him. But they thought it was hilarious (no one knows why; not even them), and they called me Pami the rest of my high school years (and sometimes still do). A variation on this was Pami-Pet.

One of my coworkers calls me “Re-Becky” or “REbecca” (long E sound). He’s also been known to refer to me as “Rebecca of Sunnybrook Farm,” “Hey You,” and “that annoying girl who sometimes says I can’t do the things I want to do.” I try to take pity on him, though, because his name is Earl. Poor guy (<–that was sarcasm, in case you missed it).

I don’t think I have any other nicknames (that I know about). Probably someone will correct me on this. As previously mentioned, I have the worst memory ever.

Bouncing in the jumperoo

James loves the jumperoo. Ryan and I have been laughing at this all evening.

  • To Do In 2011

    1. Make dinner 2 nights per week
    2. Finish James’s baby book
    finished as much as possible
    3. Own a pair of comfortable dress boots
    4. Read 25 books
    5. Take a week of vacation in the summer and visit my family
    6. Try a new ingredient once a month (Jan, Feb, Mar, Apr, May, Jun, Jul, Aug, Sep, Oct, Nov, Dec)
    7. Organize my recipe collection
    8. Develop a more efficient workspace at my office
    My new desk is WAY more organized/organizable.
    9. Own investment jeans
    Not Happening
    10. Go to 3 local museums
    11. Organize a group camping trip
    We had 2 of them!
    12. Learn how to run
    In progress!
    13. See a concert
    14. Try out four new restaurants
    (Jan 21) (March 18)
    15. Acknowledge the birthdays of every person on my list
    Epic fail
    16. Make something for James using some of his old clothes
    17. Watch James take his first steps/say his first real words
    18. Put pictures in all the frames in our apartment
    19. Buy a cake from a local bakery
    20. Go to a band concert at UMD
    21. Exercise more
    Y Membership
    22. See my sister graduate college
    I'm counting this as accomplished; I didn't watch her walk, but we had dinner with her that night.
    23. Cut back on sweets
    My new job has actually helped with this; less boredom/stress = less snacking!
    24. Get rid of cable 1/3/2011
    25. Finish our wedding scrapbook project
    26. Start purchasing Christmas gifts in March at the latest
    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
    27. Create a weekly menu, and stick to it!
    See above: HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
    28. Meet someone in real life that I’ve only known on the internet
    29. Get my hair cut and style it more often
    this last part is ongoing
    30. Host a party
    31. Go to church at least once per month, and make a donation each time
    32. Send thank-you notes for all gifts
    33. Make ice cream
    34. Encourage Ryan to get his first Cisco certification
    35. Try a new food
    I'm counting brussel sprouts.
    36. Hang out with Alyson for an entire weekend
    37. Make more of an effort to dress up for work
    No longer necessary; this is more of a nice jeans and sweater kind of place.
    38. Make a lunch (not frozen) 2 days per week.
    I've been packing a peanut butter sandwich and carrots. I consider this an achievement.
    39. Take a community ed class
    Swimming w/the boys
    40. Make something in our dutch oven that requires using it in the oven
    41. Go to bed before eleven more often
    42. Go to a Farmer’s Market and buy something 3 times this summer
    Another failure. Although we did buy some local honey from a friend!
    43. Call my parents and sisters every other week just to check in
    I think I'm doing WORSE at this than last year
    44. Make: caramel rolls from scratch (get the recipe from my grandma)
    45. Bring James on his first trip to Canada
    46. Learn to drive a stick
    47. Print out photos from our wedding and put them in an album
    48. Make breakfast more often on the weekends
    49. Keep the apartment cleaner than past years
    50. Buy a good area rug for the living room
    51. Make a general doctor’s appointment to get my cholesterol, blood pressure, etc., checked out 1/11/11
    52. Take more pictures and put some in albums
    53. Clean the basement and organize all our stuff down there
    All bins labeled as of 3/13/11. This is as much organizing as is going to happen before we move
    54. Organize my jewelry
    55. Buy more bins for storage and put seasonal clothes away
    56. Donate all unused clothing/toys to Goodwill/Salvation Army

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